Have i upset paul500

1stpop · Post by **1stpop** » Wed Jul 18, 12 4:52 pm

last time paul500 wrote on this forum it was in a reply to how my engine died , i asked him how he knew what internals my engine had etc and he has not been back since. just hope i have not said something wrong to upset him.

Pete · Post by **Pete** » Wed Jul 18, 12 5:12 pm

Well, that may depend on who built your engine and trans.

I suggest that maybe you send him a PM and try to sort out any potential misunderstanding as opposed to discussing it in open forum.

There may be no issues and he just has not been on the site lately............

Pete

Cannonball · Post by **Cannonball** » Wed Jul 18, 12 9:03 pm

Pete wrote:Well, that may depend on who built your engine and trans.

I suggest that maybe you send him a PM and try to sort out any potential misunderstanding as opposed to discussing it in open forum.

There may be no issues and he just has not been on the site lately............

Pete

was on at 702pm

http://www.moparuk.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=40028

TYREMAN · Post by **TYREMAN** » Wed Jul 18, 12 9:13 pm

Well it makes a change from RRunner or one of us doing it.

have a look on Facebook to find out if anything is said?

Mick · Post by **Mick** » Wed Jul 18, 12 9:45 pm

The written word has a knack of doing that, a few people have told me i'm quite direct but anyone who's met me knows i'd knowingly never offend anyone.
Mick

Rich · Post by **Rich** » Wed Jul 18, 12 11:16 pm

Think i must of met your brother..............

joking, absolutely right mick,you cannot put a tone on your voice with the written word, so it is often taken the wrong way...
As pete wisely said,if in doubt PM...no one else will see it that way...

Dave-R · Post by **Dave-R** » Thu Jul 19, 12 8:47 am

I would hate to think anything i have written had ever upset anyone.....

Dave-R · Post by **Dave-R** » Thu Jul 19, 12 8:48 am

Actually I don't know which is worse. My "attitude" when writing or when I am talking to ya.

andyrob · Post by **andyrob** » Thu Jul 19, 12 10:11 am

Dave wrote:Actually I don't know which is worse. My "attitude" when writing or when I am talking to ya.

Both are really bad

Hard chiose which is worse....................

Kev · Post by **Kev** » Thu Jul 19, 12 12:15 pm

I've always used emoticons to disperse any potential misunderstandings. Sarcasm doesn't come across well in the internet age, eh?

Dave-R · Post by **Dave-R** » Thu Jul 19, 12 12:31 pm

V8 Sam · Post by **V8 Sam** » Thu Jul 19, 12 3:15 pm

I already had a mild unintentional dispute on the forum with in 2 weeks lol.

Me and ex started so many arguments from text message where it is taken the wrong way.

Sarcasm written does not work.

Dave81 · Post by **Dave81** » Thu Jul 19, 12 9:22 pm

You do have to be careful.

Always start "No offence intended", or, "This is not having a go at you" ect or my fave............... finish with

Dave-R · Post by **Dave-R** » Thu Jul 19, 12 9:36 pm

Dave81 wrote:You do have to be careful.

Always start "No offence intended", or, "This is not having a go at you" ect or my fave............... finish with

When people say that they are usually very much offending or having a go at you.

Dave81 · Post by **Dave81** » Thu Jul 19, 12 9:46 pm

Dave wrote:
Dave81 wrote:You do have to be careful.

Always start "No offence intended", or, "This is not having a go at you" ect or my fave............... finish with
When people say that they are usually very much offending or having a go at you.

No offence intended Dave.......But not me!