On the first two photos of the crank the rear of the block is to the left and the front to the right.
The wear looks to have been caused by the crank being pushed forwards. But I can't see anything that would cause that.
The only thing that I can imagine happening is the torque converter being pushed hard forward. I don't see how that could happen though?
There is a place fairly local that might be able to metal spray it. Cost is my main worry.
Is the Crank +10 & +10 or is the rest of the bearing surfaces more worn
Don't know what that means Pete.

I will remove the crank completely when I can face going back in the garage again. Right now I am too upset. I just don't have any money left to put this right.
I have never come across a damaged crank before so this is all new to me.
To be honest, in the past with old Ford engines, I used to just bang in new bearings and if the crank spun OK that was that. Big ends we used to check just by feeling for play.

That was good enough for those things.