R.I.P update

DAVE POWELL · Post by **DAVE POWELL** » Tue Dec 21, 10 7:49 pm

I have not had the pleasure of meeting you, but have read your posts over the years with interest. This one has stunned me and my family and we are very sorry for your loss and send our deepest condolences at this difficult time.

Dave Powell

TYREMAN · Post by **TYREMAN** » Tue Dec 21, 10 9:15 pm

MY brother Ben asked me to send you his condolences.

BJ Mac · Post by **BJ Mac** » Tue Dec 21, 10 9:49 pm

Really sorry to here of your loss Simon. Sincere condolences to you and the family.

andy68 · Post by **andy68** » Tue Dec 21, 10 10:58 pm

So sorry for your loss our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

hemi472 · Post by **hemi472** » Wed Dec 22, 10 9:43 am

Simon,

really sorry to hear of your sad loss.

Chris / wisbech.

Bryan S · Post by **Bryan S** » Wed Dec 22, 10 8:33 pm

Oh dear Simon
Bananarama! a cord with me mate,i lost the love of my life 7 years ago and i know what your goin through and it's all horrible.
I went on auto pilot,keeping all around me as normal as possible and friends and family kept close.
When on my own thats when i would cry my heart out, It all takes time and everybody is different.
If you want to talk then you can always PM me.I'll be thinking of you,don't spend to much time on your own except when you want it.
Regards B.

dustymopar · Post by **dustymopar** » Thu Dec 23, 10 8:38 am

Shocked

Truly sorry to hear that - our thoughts are with you....

Anonymous · Post by **Anonymous** » Thu Dec 23, 10 12:38 pm

It was beckys 30th yesterday so I went to the chapel of rest to see her hardest thing I have ever done

Pete · Post by **Pete** » Thu Dec 23, 10 12:57 pm

Blimey, that's a tough one Simon.
I DO know how you feel.
Getting past the funeral is a big step as you can get a bit of closure at that point, and you can try to move on. It will still be very tough.

People will empathize with you, but in reality they will tend to get own with their own lives, whereas yours will have changed forever.

Friends and a bit of "normality" will be very important now....

We are all thinking of you this Christmas.

Pete, Julie and the girls.